Qualities of a soul mate

We know what want out of having a good partner and a good relationship. But then again, the best kinds of relationships are those that always manage to bring a few good surprises to the table. They can come from personal feelings that you have that you never thought you would feel in that manner. For more concrete examples of these little surprises, read on until the end of this article. Of course, you see yourself as an unstoppable force that could possibly do no wrong. As much as possible, you try to see yourself as a perfect being in your own eyes.

I recently visited a doctor who happened to be an old family friend. He casually asked how I was coping with the loss of my husband, who had passed away from cancer five years ago. When I replied that I was doing well, I received the most unexpected reaction from the man: He began to cry, confessing that many years ago, my husband had lent him money to attend medical school without ever asking for it in return. We each hold a unique vision of love and all too often we overlook flaws because we fall in love with a person.

I will admit, I am guilty of this myself. But what about reality? To find that "perfect" person, however, we need to know what we are looking for. So readers, what qualities should you look for in a soulmate?

Do you have a mental list of what you expect and desire in a partner? Does your current partner match up to that list, or some of those characteristics? We often attract our partners in an unconscious manner that does fulfill what we want in a life partner. When you meet your soulmate, you know it. There is an undeniable attraction that goes beyond that list that has been mentally creating itself since childhood.